bearseatbeats asked: At any rate, greif is healthy, as long as you can come out of it. Grief is part of what makes us strong as humans. That we can grieve and remember and then later look back on those memories with happy hearts gives us fuel - something to propel ourselves forward. Often I think of my uncle and wonder how he would feel about me now, now after six years I'm a different person. I hold myself to his example as best I can and while I always make mistakes, I feel like I'm doing my best - all you can do.
Thank you so much for your inspiring advice.
My grandmother and I were extremely close, seeing as how she helped my parents raise me, and during the last few months of her life I spent as much time visiting her as I could, although she wasn’t aware of it half of the time.
And it’s because of the fact that we were so close, that I worry about never being able to get over this.
After having her be a part of my life for 21 years, I just can’t imagine how to do anything without her being here.
